The Wonder of Being Kind

Source: Character.org

Sixth grade student, Aishi Roy, wrote this essay, which was originally published by Character.org’s The Laws of Life essay contest. This contest encourages elementary, middle, and high school students to reflect and write about a core value that means the most to them – and why.

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It all started one Monday during lunchtime as I was scouting for my usual group and they were nowhere to be seen in the cafeteria.  

When I noticed a new girl sitting alone at lunch. Her name was Anne, and she seemed shy and nervous. I remembered how it felt to be the new kid in school since I have moved a lot, so I decided to go over and asked “Mind, if I sit here?” Anne nodded. I asked her where she is from. Anne replied, “From Russia.” 

I realized that she was not only new to school but also to the USA. It was a much bigger shift for her than I thought it would be. At that moment, I thought I could develop a new friendship; in this way, I would learn something new and help her with things around school. For the next couple of days, we started hanging out during lunch, and I would help her with small things. It was like a chain reaction of kindness, all because one person took the time to show a little compassion. All of my friends started doing the same. 

It felt like being nice and kind is like having a magic touch that can truly transform the world for the better. It's not a word, it's a way of living. Just imagine if everyone treated each other with kindness, what a world that would be! 

I have found that in my school life, when I am helping a friend with their studies, lending an ear to someone in need of support, or consoling someone who is feeling down, kindness has the ability to make an impact on people's lives. When we extend warmth to others it motivates them to reciprocate in kind. 

Moreover, kindness isn't about how we interact with others; it also encompasses how we treat ourselves. It's vital to extend kindness towards ourselves—to practice self-compassion and self-care. This entails being gentle with ourselves, forgiving our missteps and acknowledging our value. By being kind to ourselves we enhance our ability to display kindness towards others. 

In essence kindness is indeed a strength that resides within each of us. It holds the potential to transform the world through acts of goodwill. As a 12-year-old I hold the magic power to impact those around me positively by doing small acts of kindness. 

Let’s spread kindness everywhere we go and see how the world transforms into a joyful place, for everyone. Keep in mind kindness isn't merely an action we take; it's a reflection of ourselves. Lastly, kindness has this ability to spread from one person to another like wildfire.

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Aishi Roy is a 6th grader at Rose Hill Middle School, Washington.

 

 

The Laws of Life essay contest sponsored by Character.org encourages elementary, middle, and high school students to reflect and write about a core value that means the most to them – and why.

Character.org is a non-partisan organization that advocates for character.

It is comprised of educators, researchers, business and civic leaders who care deeply about the vital role that character will play in our future. Their worldwide network empowers people of all ages to practice and model core values that shape our hearts, minds, and choices. Their mission is to provide global leadership, voice, and resources for developing character in families, schools, and organizations.